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I thought it best to start this converstaion with the definition of Dating. I have become highly irritable to silliness, especially from men. I do not have time or energy to waste. I'd rather chill and read a book than waste my time dilly-dallying with another mother's child.
These days, people hardly feel the need to go on dates preferring to hook up at each other's places to get to know each other. 90% of the guys who show an interest in me ask me if they may visit me. It pisses me off!!!
Actually, it started pissing me off recently.
I was sitting on my uncomfortable chair as I had a 'suitor' in my house. He sat there, on my couch, getting warmed by my fireplace(my wood, my charcoal) while drinking my wine and watching my TV. He even tried to change channels, I almost stabbed him then. Anyway, I thought...ummm...where is the impressing me part? Does it come now? The guy then went on to tell me how much he loves me etc...duuuuude, you don't even know me!!! And of course you love me, that's not headline news to me. Lotsa people do, pick a number and stand in line.
Its really disgusting how both men and women are cutting corners on 'getting to know each other' lately. Such cosiness of couch sharing should be reserved for later on. That's a very intimate thing to do me thinks.
I realise that my rigidity is annoying and sometimes may come across as self-righteous...I make no apology for this though. Was it Iyanla or Rick Warren who spoke in length about using your energy rather on God than silliness? Actually my favourite guy in the bible, Paul, urges us to use our energy on God. If you know its nothing serious, why are you using your time, energy on him? SOme people even sleep with these non-seriouis people. Share your whole self, open your legs-widdde, for a non-serious person? You are strong hun.
It aint my fault people feel comfortable in confined spaces with a guy they haven't been in the same company with for over 5 hours. And nogal in South Africa. Tjooo.
I want to date. Proper. Like, make reservations and plan IN TIME. Go have dinner, watch whales even. I want to be impressed. Before you make a noise, yes, of course I'll impress too...(figuring out how, my awesome charm and smile perhaps?). There is a guy at the moment who has pin-pointed me as his to-be girl(GIRL?Nne??mxm )